Gifts for the women who have everything
24 GIFTS FOR THE WOMEN WHO HAS EVERYTHING
There’s a point where gifting becomes complicated.
She already has the candle, the mug, the nice blanket, the make-up bag. She probably has a skincare routine, a favourite hoodie, and a phone full of screenshots of things she might buy “one day.”
So what do you get the woman who seems to have everything?
For me, the answer is: things that soften her life, honour her body, and add texture to her days. Little upgrades that say, “I see how much you carry, and I want you to receive too.”
This is my intentionally curated edit of 24 quietly luxe gifts for the “girl who has everything” in her late twenties to early forties. Think of it less as a shopping list and more as a menu of intentional luxuries and small aesthetic upgrades that love her back.
rituals & body
39BC Luxury Bath & Body Oil
At this stage, a bath or shower isn’t just hygiene, it’s a reset button. The right products turn that quick rinse into a ceremony: the water feels heavier, the scent lingers, and the body actually drops a few inches deeeper into the moment.
KOOMI pick: The Vol. 1 Alexandria Gift Set from 39BC – a ready-made ritual in a box. If you want something a little simpler but still special, go for the Oil Body Cleanser on its own – one beautiful bottle she can reach for on the nights she actually wants her shower to feel like an exhale, not a chore.
Sangre de Fruta Botanical Candle
A Sangre de Fruta candle feels like lighting a tiny apothecary in your home – the scent is layered, botanical and quietly sophisticated. It’s the kind of candle you burn on purpose, not just because you happen to be home.
KOOMI pick:
The Neroli Noir Candle – described as a hypnotic blend of neroli with aromatic florals and a spicy-sweet edge. On paper, it feels like the most complex, evening-coded choice of their trio, and the one to pick if she likes her scents a little more interesting than “just pretty.”
DELUSH CBD Magic Stick
For the woman who keeps everything running. The Delush CBD Magic Stick is a small, discreet comfort she can keep in her bag, on her desk or beside her bed for the days when her body feels like it’s quietly protesting her schedule. It’s practical and indulgent without requiring a full spa day.
KOOMI pick: The
CBD Magic Stick
as a little “I see how much you do” gesture. It’s for the friend who never cancels and rarely lets herself fall apart.
Note: This product contains CBD and is intended for adult recipients in places where CBD products are legal. Anyone who is pregnant, breastfeeding, on medication or managing a health condition should check in with a healthcare provider before using CBD-based products.
Better Me Recovery Essential Kit
A small recovery kit is a way of saying, “you’re allowed to take care of your muscles too.” Think simple tools: light toning, stretching, core work, or just easing out the kinks after sitting or running around all day. It’s movement that fits around her life, not the other way around.
KOOMI pick: The Recovery Essential Kit from BetterMe, offers an all-in-one, colour-coordinated recovery set made for de-stressing, soothing tight areas and giving her muscles some actual TLC. Choose a shade that suits her.
Inside the kit:
Yoga Block – For support in stretches and gentle flexibility work.
Recovery Massage Ball – For rolling out sore spots in feet, calves or shoulders.
Peanut Massage Ball – For targeted relief along the spine and neck.
Recovery Foam Roller– For loosening legs, hips and back after long days or workout
The Juice Truck Wellness Shots
Wellness doesn’t need to be a 30-day challenge. Sometimes it’s a row of bright little bottles waiting in the fridge, ready to step in when she can’t slow down. A bundle of wellness shots is a realistic way to offer her something supportive for energy, mood and immunity without asking her to become a different person.
KOOMI pick: A mix of The Juice Truck’s signature shots, like their wellness shot
and their
recovery shot. “For the days you don’t have time to slow down, but your body deserves a tiny boost anyway.”
OUT-OF-HOME RITUALS
Circle Wellness Private Thermal Spa
There’s a kind of tiredness that sleep alone doesn’t fix. A session at Circle Wellness on Granville Island is for that. It’s a private thermal spa experience with a cedar soaking tub, open-air rain shower, sauna pod, cold plunge and a heated river stone bed to melt into. It feels like stepping outside her life for a while and gently rinsing it off.
KOOMI pick: The
120-minute circuit
at Circle Wellness. And if she doesn’t live near Vancouver, look for a similar thermal spa or bathhouse in her city. The magic is in the ritual, not the postcode.
HOME things that hold you
CRATE & BARREL Clear Glass Carafe
There’s something quietly luxurious about waking up in the night or first thing in the morning and having water already waiting in a beautiful glass carafe. It turns “I’m parched” into a tiny ritual instead of a half-asleep stumble to the kitchen.
KOOMI pick: A simple, clear glass carafe-and-cup set that can live on her bedside table. It doesn’t need to be ornate; it just needs to be something she enjoys looking at and reaching for every single day.
Moon Prism Pottery Cermamic Mug
Yes, she already owns mugs. No, she doesn’t have this mug. A handmade ceramic cup quickly becomes the mug: the one she reaches for on mornings that matter and nights when she needs to sit with herself for a minute.
KOOMI pick: I love the Fuschia and Purple Mug, made locally by Elizabeth at Moon Prism Pottery, a Vancouver ceramic artist – The whole thing should make you want to sit down, take a breath and drink something warm slowly.
Frondly Plant
A plant is a quiet kind of company. It sits in the corner, by the window or on the shelf and just… lives. For the woman whose days are full of people needing things from her, a low-maintenance plant is a softer kind of responsibility.
KOOMI pick: A medium-sized house plant from Frondly. In a pot that actually suits her space, without taking over. Choose a plant that’s forgiving, so that watering it becomes a simple and little ritual.
June & papi Laundry Care
A well-designed laundry kit quietly upgrades a chore she does every week into something that feels cleaner, calmer and less industrial. It’s about what’s in the products and what they look like sitting in her space: gentle on skin and clothes, and pretty enough that she doesn’t have to hide them behind a cupboard door.
KOOMI pick: The June & Papi get started kit – a complete set of their core laundry products in reusable tins. It cuts down on single-use plastic and looks aesthetically pleasing on an open shelf. Think of it as a small renovation for her laundry routine: same task, much nicer experience.
Olaolu Slawn Art Print
A print by London-based Nigerian artist Olaolu Akeredolu-Ale (Slawn) brings that London–Lagos, clever, satirical graffiti energy into her space. His work doesn’t sit quietly in the background, it jumps off the wall and reminds her she’s allowed to be complex, playful, and just a little outrageous.
KOOMI pick: Slawn's Mike Tyson and Batman both loud, unapologetic and a little absurd in the best way. They’re perfect for the woman who doesn’t want polite decor, she wants a piece that looks back at her.
Style & Statement Pieces
SKIMS Bodysuit
Some pieces earn permanent residency in her wardrobe. A bodysuit by SKIMS is one of them. High rotation, low drama. It’s the base layer that just works well under everything.
KOOMI pick: A Fits Everybody or Seamless Sculpt bodysuit in a neutral that matches her wardrobe. This is not the place to experiment. Pick the neckline and straps you know she’ll actually wear.
UGG slippers
If she’s going to be at home, she might as well be deliberately comfortable. Good slippers change the feeling of early mornings, late-night dishwashing and “just one more email” at the kitchen counter. They turn the floor from “cold surface” into “I live here, actually.”
KOOMI pick: The UGG Women's Tasman II andWomen's Coquette, both slippers. Think cushioned, warm, and easy to slide into as she moves between bed, kitchen, calls and couch. If she hates obvious logos, look for a minimalist pair from a smaller brand in wool, shearling or faux fur.
Cult Gaia BAG
A good bag is useful. A Cult Gaia bag is iconic. Their pieces sit somewhere between accessory and sculpture: instantly recognisable, architectural, and very “I chose this on purpose.” It’s the bag she reaches for when she wants her outfit to speak before she does.
KOOMI pick: The Cult Gaia Kazia Nano Crossbody Bag. Go for a neutral or warm tone if this will be her “go with everything” piece, or a bolder colour if she already has the basics covered. This isn’t about logos, it’s about shape, texture and presence.
Omi Woods Necklace
Jewelry hits differently when it’s doing more than matching an outfit. A small gold pendant that actually means something to her and feels like a quiet anchor she wears on her body.
KOOMI pick: The Cowrie Abundance pendant, or Africa Pillow pendant from Omi Woods. Choose something from their collection that honours African and diaspora stories, or a piece whose imagery feels personally symbolic to her. Think of it as a wearable talisman: she can layer it with other pieces if she wants, but this is the one she keeps closest to her skin.
Beauty & small luxuries
CéCRED Hair Tools
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for your hair isn’t another product, it’s better tools. This set is for the woman who is always doing her own hair (or her kids’), and is tired of fighting with flimsy combs and random brushes.
KOOMI pick: The CÉCRED Essential Tools Bundle, a matching hair instruments that includes a vented paddle brush, parting tail comb, wide-tooth comb and rake comb. Together they cover detangling, sectioning, styling and adding volume, whether she’s working with curls, coils, braids, silk press or wigs. It’s a small upgrade that says: "your hair deserves tools that were actually chosen for it."
Lunya Maxi Robe
A robe is basically a soft boundary between her and the world. The right one works over old T-shirts, nothing at all, or full pyjamas.
KOOMI pick: The LUNYA Slumberknit Maxi Robe Long, drapey, soft enough to live in, and still put-together enough that she could open the door or make tea while on Zoom without feeling like she’s “in pajamas.” This is the piece that quietly becomes her house uniform.
Saje Pocket Farmacy
There are days when everything hurts a little bit and she doesn’t the have time to fall apart. This tiny toolkit of roll-ons for head-to-toe discomforts will be like having a mini apothecary in her bag.
KOOMI pick: The Pocket Farmacy Physical Edition from Saje as a throw-in-her-bag, keep-on-her-desk kit. It’s for the woman who lives in her body and her calendar at the same time, and occasionally needs help dropping back into herself.
TINTED Invisible Sunscreen Stick SPF 50+
Daily SPF isn’t negotiable anymore, but reapplying it shouldn’t require a mirror, a sink and a whole production. A clear sunscreen stick means she can swipe it on and keep moving – on walks, at the playground, between meetings, on the way home. Easy and consistent protection that fits into a real day.
KOOMI pick: The Tinted HUEGUARD Invisible Sunscreen Stick SPF 50+. Completely transparent, no white cast, and easy to swipe on over makeup or bare skin. This is the one she’ll actually keep in her bag and use.
Touchland Hand Sanitizer Mist
If she’s going to sanitize her hands a hundred times a week, it might as well feel like a tiny pleasure. Touchland sprays are compact, colourful and look like miniature perfume bottles. Same function, completely different vibe.
KOOMI pick: The Touchland Power Mist hand sanitizer (wild watermelon is my fav). This is a small item that will live in her handbag, and might actually make her smile in line at the grocery store.
Travel & TECH
Beats Wireless Headphones
Some gifts live in a drawer. These live on her head. Over-ear headphones are as much a boundary as they are a tech accessory: flights, deep-work sessions, “my ears are occupied, I can’t hear you” afternoons at home. They give her a little private world she can step into, even when everything around her is loud.
KOOMI pick: The Beats Studio Pro. The sound is clear enough to actually hear what the producer intended in a track, and the noise cancelling helps take the edge off everyday noise.
MONOS Carry-On Luggage
For the woman whose life is spread across cities, trips and obligations, a well-designed carry-on can quietly change how travel feels. Instead of wrestling with a heavy, awkward suitcase, she gets something that glides through airports, tucks into overhead bins and makes moving between places feel more composed and less chaotic.
KOOMI pick: The MONOS Hybrid Carry-On. When I went to Argentina, this was the only suitcase I brought, and it my very ambitious packing list with zero drama. It’s the bag I reach for when I want travel to feel streamlined and calm, not chaotic.
Mind & movement
Papier Journal
A journal is an invitation, not an obligation. The right one feels too nice to waste on nonsense, so it naturally pulls better things out of her: lists that actually matter, letters she’ll never send, business ideas, prayers, plans. This is less “dear diary” and more “this is where my real brain lives.”
KOOMI pick: The Papier Time to Bloom hardbacked journal, paired with a smooth pen from any brand you already love. It should feel like a place her thoughts are welcome, not just another notebook she abandons after three pages.
Yyoga Class Pack or membership credit
Some gifts land in her closet. This one lands in her nervous system. A YYoga pass or membership invites her to move, breathe and stretch in community. Without having to think about the bill every time she books. It's support for her mindy and body, built into her week.
KOOMI pick: A YYOGA Class Pack or
Membership Credit so she can try a few different studios or class styles and see what actually feels good in her body.
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